In German family law, there is one document that can weigh more heavily than any number of hearings, witness statements, or even your own testimony: the psychologisches Fachgutachten — a court-ordered psychological…
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German Citizenship Was Never the Goal — It Became the Only Way Forward
For years, I tried to secure Greek citizenship for my daughters.I was legally acknowledged as their father.I followed all necessary steps.But the missing affidavit, the confiscated passports, and the deadlock between institutions…
Help From Outside: When the System Fails, Humanity Responds
After months, if not years, of silence from German authorities, I began to lose hope. The institutions had confirmed my fatherhood, acknowledged the children’s situation, and still left us trapped. So I…
Bounced Between Offices: When Everyone Says ‘Not My Job’
Bounced Between Offices: When Everyone Says “Not My Job” After receiving the custody ruling in 2022, I believed that the institutions would now support me — or at least acknowledge their part…
A Custody Ruling That Closed Every Door
A Custody Ruling That Closed Every Door In 2023, after years of unanswered letters, failed embassy visits, and legal silence, I finally received a decision from a German family court. It confirmed…
When a Child Has No Country: The Long Road to Citizenship Begins
When Origin Doesn’t Grant Belonging I never imagined I would have to explain to a civil registrar why my child doesn’t legally carry my name. In early 2014, in a notary’s office…
Die Macht der Gutachterin – Wenn Expertise das Recht überholt
Ein persönlicher Erfahrungsbericht aus dem deutschen Familiengerichtssystem Im Zentrum vieler familiengerichtlicher Verfahren in Deutschland steht das Gutachten. Was in der Theorie als objektive Einschätzung einer neutralen Fachperson gedacht ist, entwickelt sich in…
Where Goethe Meets Aristotle — And Where German Family Law Forgot Them Both
1. Introduction, Germany gave us Goethe. Yet its justice system has forgotten what he stood for. Goethe was not just a poet; he was a thinker of rare depth, a scientist of…
What Kind of Generation Are We Raising?
Introduction: From “Toughen Up” to “Are You Okay?” Those of us born in the 1970s grew up in a world that was beginning to recognize the value of psychology and emotional intelligence—but…
A Week Without My Car: What I Learned on the Bus
Introduction: A Mechanical Problem, A Human Opportunity Last week, my car went to the mechanic. Nothing major—just one of those necessary repairs we tend to postpone until it’s no longer avoidable. I…